BT realism

[Defiant]

I know CK and SD are swaying away from EA,but i need a good Realism Mod for my server,i favor CKs for MOHAA but also appreciate SDs,I run a BT server now and want the best,both are great,i have used Mods from both of them and and it's a tight race,i just want to run a good Realism mod with no BS from the players,knowing SDs is the only one i see,is this close to CKR?
If so,i would appreciate a link to download it from to try it out,i have did the search,but only got Beta(SD mod),new mods are cool,but if it crashes the server,i'm screwed,i work a Bastard shift and am unable to restart the server if it does crash.
Thanks for any and all help..............